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  • Welcome Back to the Rabbit Hole…

    Like I was saying tho, I did some real reflection of asking myself the same thing Dr. Perry and Oprah posed to each other, “what happened to you” and “what happened to you because of that.” I found out that I had a bad case of control issues and horrible habits of lying and manipulating.

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  • Reflections from December

    Reflections from December You’re probably wondering what took so long for me to come back to writing. To be very honest, shame is the reason. A sense of guilty consciousness and shame is what kept me from investing in my passions for at least the past 3 weeks. Now, those other days are a different

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  • For Those Who Believe in the Power of Community

    I think a lot of the time people don’t feel supported in addressing their mental health because they feel like their experiences are too unique to anyone else’s, which leads to keeping it in ( forming nasty thoughts of shame and resentment) and ultimately avoiding mental health practices, especially queer/non-queer black millennial men. That’s why

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  • Day 1: Putting my Happiness on my Radar

    Today is the first day of my very own personal Happiness Project. I can imagine WordPress has seen so many of these blogs arise from the works of Gretchen Rubin’s Happiness Project. So here I am, boldly conforming to the idea to aim higher too (chapter 3 for any Rubin junkies like myself). Much like

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